Jess Not Jessica

21. University of Miami. Queer Black Fat Femme Feminist.


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theblackestwidow:

THIS MAN IS A GIFT

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thehomosexuals:

Don’t fuck with me

This is great. You were very mature and explicit, as well as helpful in the ways that you could be. I don’t think you could have handled this any better than you did. 4 for you, Glen Coco.

I wish I could have stood up for myself in this way when I was a teenager

Sheroes.

Threatening suicide to get what you want isn’t “borderline” abusive, it is abusive.

Men who do this have a very high risk of murdering whomever they’re trying to guilt trip when the guilt trip eventually stops working.

ironically hes joked about killing me before

That’s terrifying

I could never of been that sure of myself and protective of my own health when I was 14. What you did is wonderful and you should be incredibly proud of yourself.

This is very important, everyone. Also, if your partner ever threatens to hurt themselves, either because they, “feel so bad that they made you upset,” or for any reason, that’s abuse. They’re trying to manipulate you into not saying you’re upset with their behavior. “I love them, and I don’t want them to be hurt because of me, so I shouldn’t speak up, even though they hurt my feelings.” That’s a perfect example of emotional manipulation and guilt tripping you. If they threaten that they may die- either from suicide or a, “broken heart,” if you leave them, that’s abuse. You shouldn’t have to live in fear of your partner hurting themself of killing themself just because you want out of a relationship. If they don’t respect your choices, or especially if they don’t respect you, leave them. It’s not your fault.

Fourteen year old me is in freakin’ AWE.

This kind of manipulation is scary, and somehow you have to find the strength to say NO.  Steel yourself when the other person, male or female, says they will hurt or kill themselves if you break up with them or don’t go out with them, recommend they get help elsewhere, but continue to say no when they demand personal interaction with you.  That person will try to devour your life.  You will spend your days wondering how you can avoid a scene, how you can keep from “hurting” them, and the relationship can go downhill.  It’s like these people say, protect your own health.  Don’t let a psychological vampire like this into your life.  Trust us.  We’ve all had them, and they will harm you psychologically and perhaps even physically.  They have to mend themselves.  You can’t do it for them.

words about this. i have them. ill keep them to myself

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I FOUND A KIM POSSIBLE DOLL AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO REACT

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Get that weak loli shit out of here!

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Get that weak loli shit out of here!

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chen000:

how to draw a sheep: draw a cloud, legs, a circle for the head and there you have it
a sheep

someone draw a sheep using these instructions

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this rlly helped i think this is the best sheep i have EVER drawn!!!

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have you ever had to restart a song because you spaced out and weren’t appreciating it enough

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Friend: calm your tits

Me: no
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sharonosbourne:

people that are in relationships but still flirt with you anyway

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bombing:

fun drinking game: take a shot of water every couple hours to make sure you’re healthy and hydrated

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fovelshucker:

DONT BE FRIENDS WITH ME I LAUGH AT MY OWN JOKES FOR YEARS

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stoned-levi:

i wanna get raws of the tokyo ghoul anime and keep all the subs the same except for the conversations that involve tsukiyama

but what would you change them to stoned?

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what happens if you fart



I will never not reblog this.

queenieseas:

satsukitomoe:

experimentflaw:

what happens if you fart

I will never not reblog this.

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